"How many women can say that their first time was amazing?" the actor Maria Bello writes. She visited her first love decades after they dated — to say goodbye: Her beloved Johnnie was dying of A.L.S.
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The Morning: Fall arrives tomorrow
Good morning. It's still summer today, but fall arrives tomorrow. Take a minute to pause on the threshold.
Shoulder seasonI received the "They're back!" text from my friend Greg in Oxford, Miss., on Monday evening. "They" were the Halloween inflatables festooning his neighbor's lawn, as depicted in an accompanying photo: a jack-o'-lantern with a ghost flailing from each eye, Skeleton Medusa, two spiders the size of Volkswagen Beetles. Greg knows I'm appalled at the ever-earlier arrival of spooky-season décor. Mid-September, still summer by the astronomical calendar. I went to the website of "The Old Farmer's Almanac" for some sanity. No comfort there: "Thanksgiving Weather Forecast 2024 — With U.S. Travel Map!" the headline chirped, gleefully premature. "Who decides on the seasons," I searched, just to be a brat. I know what's happening: Tomorrow morning, at 8:44 a.m., the sun, heading southward, will cross the celestial equator. No matter what post-Labor Day stalwarts on Cape Cod told my colleague Steven Kurutz about September's being a summer month, if you're currently residing in the Northern Hemisphere, the argument's over: Tomorrow's fall. I'm relieved, at this point, to stop the charade; enough with this yearning. It was 82 degrees in New York City last weekend, but it wasn't really hot. It was a noncommittal hot, bright but withholding. When the sun went behind a building, it felt like an abandonment. I picture the months of September through December as a long slide. You're at the top at Labor Day, maybe holding on to the railing, afraid to let go of August. By the time you get to the equinox, the descent is fully underway. You're picking up momentum: Oct. 1, Halloween, Election Day, changing the clocks; buckle in, here come the holidays. You land at the end of December, with a flying leap into the new year (if you're blessed), or with a thud, in a puddle (if you're me), or you just land on your feet (a good goal for all of us). "Don't talk to me of solemn days / In autumn's time of splendor," Paul Laurence Dunbar wrote, denouncing those who would portray fall as a time of sadness and decay. I'm persuadable. Last weekend, as the sky turned pink and the sun set on an outdoor concert in Queens, I closed my eyes and tried to feel the chill enter the air, to detect the exact moment it went from short-sleeves weather to sweater weather. The threshold between one season and another, between one moment and the next, between one way of being and the next one: There's power there. If you can identify the demarcation and pause in it, you can turn your head one way and see where you've been, turn the other and see where you're going. We're doing so many things and moving so quickly that these moments usually slip by unacknowledged. We don't realize we were in portal until we've already passed through it. For more
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🎬 The Wild Robot (Friday): A robot washes ashore on a lightly forested island in this technological and ecological fantasy from DreamWorks Animation. Children's films are too rare these days; memorable ones are scarcer still. But this one promises well. Written and directed by Chris Sanders ("Lilo & Stitch"), it is an adaptation of Peter Brown's stern and lyrical middle-grade novel, a meditation on community, found families and adapting to new environments. It stars the voices of Lupita Nyong'o as the title automaton and Kit Connor as the gosling she adopts.
Gochugaru Salmon With Crispy RiceHello! Mia Leimkuhler here, the newsletter editor for NYT Cooking. My suggestion for this weekend is a simple one: Make Eric Kim's gochugaru salmon with crispy rice. This fast, easy and (most crucially) very delicious dish was a featured recipe in our new newsletter, Dinner Tonight. "This was one of the best meals we've made in a long time," wrote Felicia, a reader. For more like it, sign up for Dinner Tonight, which arrives in your inbox every afternoon with an answer to that eternal question: What's for dinner?
The Hunt: With their first child on the way, a couple combed the co-ops of Upper Manhattan for more space. Which home did they choose? Play our game. What you get for $600,000: A 1910 Arts and Crafts-style home in Louisville, Ky.; a 1938 bungalow in Marfa, Texas; or a circa-1900 Colonial Revival house in Farmington, Conn. Taxi TV: New York City's real estate agents are taking over a smaller screen. Rent or buy? These families had a tough decision to make.
A creative playground: How a collective of artists turned a crumbling Brussels building into a D.I.Y. wonderland. 'Modern Love' podcast: Gillian Anderson reads an essay about a woman who becomes unintentionally celibate after a painful breakup, and she discusses a time when she felt similarly. Meet-cutes: Readers share their stories of serendipitous meetings this summer. Paris: The novelist Joyce Maynard spent a week on a riverboat on the Seine within full view of the Eiffel Tower.
How to pick the right bedside lampYes, aesthetics play a crucial role in selecting a bedside lamp. But after months of testing, Wirecutter experts identified a few other necessities: A stable base is a must, as is a dimmable source of light and a shade that efficiently diffuses it. With all that in mind, we landed on nine great lamps that fit a variety of style preferences — including a cheap and reliable lamp we love and a paper lantern with heft. — Joshua Lyon
W.N.B.A. playoffs: It was a breakout year for the W.N.B.A — average viewership for games on ESPN nearly tripled compared with last season. Now, it's time for the playoffs. A'ja Wilson, who broke W.N.B.A. records for both scoring and rebounds this season, will try to lead the Las Vegas Aces to a third straight title. The New York Liberty are the top seed and have a shot to win their first-ever championship. And Caitlin Clark, who set a league record for assists (and broke all sorts of rookie records), has the Indiana Fever in the postseason for the first time in almost a decade. All four first-round series begin Sunday:
Here is today's Spelling Bee. Yesterday's pangram was friction. Take the news quiz to see how well you followed this week's headlines. And here are today's Mini Crossword, Wordle, Sudoku, Connections and Strands. Thanks for spending part of your weekend with The Times. — Melissa P.S. The Morning's most clicked story this week was about the court testimony of a man in France accused of drugging and raping his wife and inviting dozens of men to do the same. "She didn't deserve this," he said in front of his ex-wife, Gisèle Pelicot, who chose to make the trial public. Read more about it. Sign up here to get this newsletter in your inbox. Reach our team at themorning@nytimes.com.
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