How to disengage with toxic people

"Gray rock" the conversation.
From The Times

June 9, 2024

To deal with the antagonistic people in your life, some suggest using the "gray rock" method: Adopt the qualities of a stone, becoming impassive and bland.

An illustration of a person looking at a phone, back facing the reader. The figure is gray and made of stone. Pink, red and yellow speech bubbles of various sizes surround the figure.

Keith Negley

Here's how to channel your inner rock.

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