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November 30, 2024 
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Good morning. I'm away this week, so my colleagues at Wirecutter have written a guide to help you sort out your holiday shopping. —Melissa Kirsch
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Giving love
 | By Hannah Morrill I'm an editor at Wirecutter, covering gifts and beauty. |
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My dad used to hand-write specific, and often unrealistic, gift wish lists for his children to fulfill before every holiday. When I was in college, he asked me for a $30,000 pontoon boat.
And so, for much of my life, I didn't particularly like the act of giving gifts. It felt dutiful.
But I've come around. Especially after I took a remote job — as a gifts editor, of all things! — I needed something to ground my relationships, despite the distance.
Gifting, I realized, is a tactile gesture of love and appreciation. It's an authentic connection point where no digital analog exists: Dropping a cheap heart in a group chat pales in comparison with almost any IRL offering.
The act of selecting and giving a gift is really a vehicle for showing loved ones how you feel about them. It can be quite beautiful and moving.
But it's also hard to do it well. (Just ask my stepdad, who has given me the same fire blanket twice.) The holidays only exacerbate that stress.
In the rest of today's newsletter, I'll offer some easy-to-follow advice I've picked up over the years, share a few of my all-time favorite gifts and show you where to start with Wirecutter's extensive gift guide coverage.
(And for more of our expert recommendations, sign up for Wirecutter's weekly gifting newsletter, The Gift.)
Consider secondary hobbies
My colleague Samantha Schoech follows this handy rule of thumb: Think less about your recipients' main hobbies because they are probably already getting themselves what they need to, say, ski or cycle. Instead, think about their secondary interests. Do they love bookstores, great coffee, tech gadgets, playing with makeup, planning trips? Those are the interests and hobbies to hit.
And if they're truly single-minded with a hobby, think of your gift as a homage to that pastime, not a part of a go-to kit. A runner might like a pint glass etched with a recent marathon route rather than a new pair of sneakers. A weekend gardener who already has a good trowel may appreciate a botanical paint-by-numbers kit.
Here are a few gift lists for those with a particular passion:
Give an upgrade
Another useful tip: Think of something your recipients have and find something even nicer, sturdier or more functional. Sure, they have a flashlight, but what about a rechargeable LED lantern that looks like a candlestick? They've already got a solid hammer, but a true D.I.Y.-er might appreciate this exceptional $300 hammer. Everyone has a phone charger, but do they have a credit-card-thin power bank in a pretty metallic shade?
If you're looking to treat your recipients to something they'd likely never buy themselves but might use daily, here's where I'd start:
Surprise and delight
A really great gift surprises the recipient. That can mean a lot of things: Maybe it's something they've never seen before, or something they didn't know they needed. A few of my favorite delights? A pitcher that looks like a fish. Potato chips in a paint can. And this funny little lazy duck lamp, to name a few.
For more cheeky inspiration:
One last word of wisdom: Sometimes the thing your recipients are always giving others might be a sign of what they themselves would really love. A fire blanket might not be for me, but I know what my stepdad is getting this year.
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Pavo al pastor
Turkey sandwiches are all well and good for the first few days of post-Thanksgiving feasting, but after the third mayo- and cranberry-sauce-slathered iteration, it might be time to branch out. For that, try Rick Martinez's pavo al pastor. Based on tacos al pastor, his recipe features warm tortillas filled with shredded roast turkey bathed in a bold, chile-laden sauce sweetened with orange juice and agave. Then, everything is topped with a cranberry-pineapple salsa for color and zing. All out of turkey? You can make these with leftover vegetables, too. The options end only when all your leftovers have been so delectably devoured.
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Thanks for spending part of your weekend with The Times. — Melissa
Correction: Thursday's newsletter included the wrong link for a Wirecutter article about the best white elephant gifts. Here is the correct link.
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